What is curvy, confident, insecure, pretty, ugly, feisty and sweet? A group of fat girls. Yes honey, we represent life’s variety; just like finger prints, no two are the same. You heard me right, no two fat girls are the same, so stop putting us all in that raggedy ass box together.
Seen one fat girl, seen them all…LIES YOU TELL (in my Tamar voice)! We are nothing alike with the exception of having a little extra cushion (for the pushing) and hell even that is different. There are still some who think that they know all of us just because they know a couple of us and to that I say…HAVE SEVERAL SEATS (yep Tamar again)!
It is sad and kinda messed up that although half of society is overweight (and/or obese), there are still so many lies and unanswered questions about fat girls. Well today, I am taking your asses to school in an effort to help you better understand fat girls as a diverse community of women. Gorgeous women I might add!
For this post, I decided to involve other fat girls, by posting the question on social media; Plus size ladies, what is one thing you want the world to know about you and girls like you? Honey, my plus size beauties flooded that post like it was a buffet (yep, my fat ass has a sense of humor and I make fat jokes). LOL! Allow me to share some of them with you.
Most fat girls stand for something because we don’t want to fall for anything, literally LOL! A lot of people assume that we lack standards and that we are willing to settle, but that statement contains more lie than a old school relaxer (get it right!). We are strong principle women.
We, the entire community of fat (plus size, curvy, full figured, thick and what ever else we are called) girls and women want you to know that you can keep your side ways comments. Bruh, remember your upbringing; if you have nothing good to say, don’t say anything!
WE ARE GOOD!
WE LOVE OUR FAT ASSES!
Please note that just because your cousin an ’em are not quite as confident as us doesn’t mean that we lack self love. We are happy, PERIOD! Not when we lose weight or if we lose weight but right now while we are fat AF.
on’t jiggle my fat, don’t lay on me, don’t tickle me, or smack my ass (unless we are having sex); unless you want to wake up in the following week that I have slapped your ass into. I am not a Tickle Me Elmo or any other toy.
Please note: this applies for kids AND adults.
we workout too! I hate to disappoint you but fat girls are in the gym, doing yoga and other physical activities just like other women. While some of us may be lazy, some of us work hard as hell to keep our fat nice and firm!
we got the memo, we are fat! I hate when people say “your fat” like I didn’t know. Last time I checked I carried these pounds and purchased the clothing I wear. Yeah, I am fat… now what else is going one because I am so unbothered.
we are just as (if not more) fashion forward as the next woman. Let me get this straight, so because I am fat I don’t have style…#GTFOH! We are fabulous dammit! our style has nothing to do with our size and we know you see that, we can twirl and slay with the best of them.
Men, not being attracted to fat girls is a personal problem. Just know that a man (read: boy) who is ignorant enough to judge a woman based on size is not our cup of tea. So just know that while you are not checking for us…WE DAMN SURE AREN’T CHECKING FOR YOU!
I know you have heard the phrase, “Big Girls Do It Better”, well that is the truth! Please know that our size does not restrict us sexually. Know that our men are very, very satisfied.
We have been thrown more shade than an orchard of apple trees. We know that society has these crappy ass beauty standards which supposedly means according to those beauty standards we are the ugly ducklings. Sure girl. But let me tell you, we could care less than a little about society’s beauty standards (#EffYorBeautyStandards) because we know that beauty is so much more than the physical (but if it was just physical, we would still be winning) and we see beauty differently.
So whether you are big mad or little mad, please understand that is your problem and we are too busy living and loving life to entertain you.
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